March 24th, 2014
Dear
family,
Alright
the subject line (running over Elder W) is brought to you by probably
the funniest moment so far of my mission. We were backing out of an
apartment complex last night and Elder W stands right behind the car
until there aren't any cars and then he backs up and I follow him.
Well he started to back up so I put the car in reverse and started
backing, but then I heard a smack on the car so I looked back and
Elder W had ran up to the car and smacked it because there was car
coming, but they saw that I was starting to back, so they were
stopped, but I didn't see Elder W at first so I accidentally bumped
him with the car and he had a water bottle in his hand and it made
him spill it all over the car and a little on himself. I looked back
to see the thumping noise right as I saw that I had bumped Elder W
and watched him spill the water everywhere. The person in the other
car was probably really weirded out and I was laughing hysterically.
Of course he wasn't hurt at all but it was really funny to watch from
my view in the driver's seat. We had a pretty good week. We found
some new investigators, but struggled to have many lessons with our
other ones, but had lots of RCLAs, but didn't get people to church,
but half the F family came. I really hope I can stay here a few
months longer.
Monday
was pretty sweet. We dropped by the Ks to see how they were doing,
and Brother K came out and we talked about his family history quest.
He and his wife had caught fire in family history and his wife was
able to trace her line back to work that had already been done that
went all the way back to like 200 AD. Instead of just saying they
were busy, he came out and asked us a ton of questions about the
church, mostly about the temple. We explained eternal families, but
he had some tough questions about people who are divorced, what
happens to the righteous spouse in heaven if the other spouse is
disobedient, etc. It was awesome for him to be open and immediately I
knew it was going to end well with his daughter. Sure enough, his
final question was, "My daughter is nine and she wants to get
baptized, where should we go from here?" He said that he already
asked her if she wanted us to come over, but she is really shy so
they said she won't do it until she feels comfortable. He told us he
was planning to come to church last week but he got confused about
which ward to go to, but that they were going to come this week.
Unfortunately he had a job interview so they didn't come, but
hopefully we start teaching their daughter this week. That was such a
cool experience! It went exactly how we had hoped! We were super
grateful for that.
Tuesday
we had zone conference and interviews with President S. He
gave a really good training on the Restoration and explained the
little-known four accounts of the first vision so that we would be
armed with the facts. He has an amazing understanding and testimony
of the Restoration. My interview went well and it was pretty short.
We have continued to receive more referrals lately but I'll explain a
few of them later.
Wednesday was a good day. We had a lesson with M and we invited her to bring her friend M. M is a retired Methodist minister. We were planning to teach the Restoration, but M and M and such big talkers that we didn't get to Joseph Smith or the Book of Mormon so we are meeting this week. I don't think M is really interested, but we'll see what happens this week. We had a pretty slow day until just before dinner we contacted the referral that we got from a lady in W and this time the lady J was in better health so S (her brother) let us in. We sat down and we invited S and some other dude who was there to join us, but only S and J came. J is really sick, but she never said what it was. They are really nice people and we taught them about the Atonement from the Book of Mormon since that seemed like something that could help them in their state as well as show them the power of the Book of Mormon. They liked what we had to say and were grateful we had stopped by. We can't really set things up with them since J's health is pretty hit-and-miss. We stopped by Saturday with copies of the Book of Mormon and J didn't have the health to meet but S was pretty excited to get a copy of the Book of Mormon. They are great people. We had a lesson with the Ms and Bro R came since he is their home teacher. It went better than most weeks and Bro M actually warmed up to Bro R pretty well. We had a lesson with R and he was really grateful we didn't give up on him since he ran off to San Antonio again but we told him it's never too late. I gave him a bunch of those papers that mom gave me and he loved them, especially the picture of Christ. He's going to be alright.
Wednesday was a good day. We had a lesson with M and we invited her to bring her friend M. M is a retired Methodist minister. We were planning to teach the Restoration, but M and M and such big talkers that we didn't get to Joseph Smith or the Book of Mormon so we are meeting this week. I don't think M is really interested, but we'll see what happens this week. We had a pretty slow day until just before dinner we contacted the referral that we got from a lady in W and this time the lady J was in better health so S (her brother) let us in. We sat down and we invited S and some other dude who was there to join us, but only S and J came. J is really sick, but she never said what it was. They are really nice people and we taught them about the Atonement from the Book of Mormon since that seemed like something that could help them in their state as well as show them the power of the Book of Mormon. They liked what we had to say and were grateful we had stopped by. We can't really set things up with them since J's health is pretty hit-and-miss. We stopped by Saturday with copies of the Book of Mormon and J didn't have the health to meet but S was pretty excited to get a copy of the Book of Mormon. They are great people. We had a lesson with the Ms and Bro R came since he is their home teacher. It went better than most weeks and Bro M actually warmed up to Bro R pretty well. We had a lesson with R and he was really grateful we didn't give up on him since he ran off to San Antonio again but we told him it's never too late. I gave him a bunch of those papers that mom gave me and he loved them, especially the picture of Christ. He's going to be alright.
Thursday
we had a lesson with J ith Bro C who has a TON of evidence of the
Book of Mormon from South America. It was really really cool.
Basically he was a retired CIA agent who stumbled on a book in a
library in Peru that was written by a conquistador who wrote the
stories of the natives. He recorded legends of four brothers who
fought because the youngest brother could shoot his bow the highest,
a white God who came to them after there was no sun for three days,
and a few other Book of Mormon stories. He was shocked and decided to
search out other books like the one he had found. He has collected
more than 70 rare copies from these Spanish conquistadors and priests
that wrote the legends and stories of the Native Americans and found
so many Book of Mormon stories. I don't have time to tell all the
evidence but he knew stuff about Hagoth the ship builder from the end
of Alma, the Jaredite people, evidence of Jared from Genesis 10, what
the Curelom and Cummoms are, etc. It was fascinating. He goes to
conferences all the time with his research and has a book called
Voices From the Dust about it all too. J really liked it and he had
watched the Restoration DVD. I think he really wants to know this
stuff, he just has a hard time and can be stubborn at times. Him and
D (his wife) took us out to Denny's and they were hilarious. I love
those two. We had dinner with the Ss and G remains nice and
supportive but not interested. Oh well.
Saturday
we were going to bring R to some lessons with us but he bailed on
us. We taught S and Sis D. Our lesson with Sis D was interesting. She
asked if we believed on Mormons were going to heaven. I told her the
explanation wasn't that simple, so I explained priesthood authority
and how everyone will have a chance and that just because someone
isn't going to be condemned if they never had the chance and that it
was authority, not Mormonism that mattered. She didn't really like
that a whole lot and she seemed to think that was what I personally
believed but she was happy that I believed it but she doesn't think
it's true for everyone. We listened to Come, Join with Us, and she
really liked that so that was good. She had to leave out of town so
she didn't come to church.
Sunday
was eventful and pretty solid. Church was great even though only E,
T, C, and Bro F came to church. We offered to make them breakfast
again but they said it's too hectic in the mornings for them. They
told us that Bro F was taking some of the little ones. It was good to
see them in church and we heard from the Primary President that they
seemed to enjoy it. Our meetings went pretty well and we were able to
make some plans for the week. We had a lesson with B and he's doing
alright despite the fact that he's missed church the past three weeks
due to work. He is really trying to figure things out and he's at a
huge crossroad in his life. He wants to find a real career and find a
wife and be able to focus more on spiritual things like he wants. We
talked about Prophets and Apostles and how he can receive answers to
prayers at General Conference (by the way I am SUPER excited for
Conference) if he goes in with faith and a desire to know what he
needs to do. We also had a quick lesson with the Ls and they wanted
us over for dinner today, so we accepted and then we realized we
should try and get an investigator to come, so we invited S and his
family and his mom accepted, so we are having dinner and a lesson
with the Ls and the Ks tonight. Sweet! We contacted two pretty solid
referrals and one was from J and it's his neighbor. She's a really
nice older lady and she got choked up and was happy to see that there
were still nice people who cared in the world. I testified that the
things that we teach will help her through all of her trials and we
set up a time to come by this week with J. It was really sweet to be
an answer to someone's prayers. Oh we also had a cool experience
where we were in a complex and I felt like we should talk to this
lady that was pretty far away in her car, so we walked by but she
didn't get out, but I felt like we should try again, so we looped
back around and this time she came out and walked right up to us and
asked who we were and we told her and she said she was from Utah and
her sister is a member. She said she took it as a sign, but we
weren't sure if she meant a sign to learn more, or a sign that she
needs to move back to Utah, but she was really glad she saw us and we
gave her our number so she can call when she wants to learn more. I
hope she does call, she seemed really awesome.
I
know that this is the true church of Jesus Christ and that true
happiness does come through living the gospel. I know that we are
blessed when we are obedient and work hard. I know that with faith we
can accomplish anything according to the Lord's will. I know that the
Book of Mormon is the word of God and is the evidence of the
marvelous message we have that God still speaks to us today. Thanks
for all the support!
Love,
Elder Pew
Love,
Elder Pew
March 31st, 2014
Dear
family,
Well
this time we can pretty well know what happened, so I'm just going to
get straight to it. This was my last full week in B. It was a good
one. I'll just get right into the good stuff.
Monday
night we set up that sweet lesson with the Ks and Ls, but when we
went with the Ls to pick the Ks up, S wasn't there. It turns out he
had baseball and they didn't know it. That was sad especially because
that made it disobedient to have a dinner without a non-member there,
but the L family sacrificed a lot to work everything out so we went
with it and it was good to be able to teach Sister K and her
daughter. The L family is awesome!
Tuesday
we had a lesson with Sister D and Sister S and it went really well. I
really wanted to commit her to a baptismal date, but Sister D and S
ended up side-tracking our conversation at the end so the Spirit
wasn't really there. We did a lot of biking the rest of that day, but
we were able to meet with the Fs briefly. We went over and Sis F, H,
and A were gone, but they got back when we were talking with Bro F
and E, and they had us come in even though they were busy. They sat
us down and made us eat some of the Indian food they had just gotten
and we talked. They are just the best family ever (The Indian food
was good by the way). Like I said, they were busy but we asked if we
could share a quick thought with them, so we talked about the
Atonement. We also set up a final lesson before the transfer. That is
going to be an intense lesson.
Wednesday
we had district meeting and we didn't have any lessons. So we did a
lot of biking and not much teaching, but that's okay.
Thursday
we weekly planned which was strange to plan and finally know that I
wasn't going to be there for all of the week. We had a lesson with M
and we pounded the importance of the Book of Mormon. She is
progressing ever slowly. We really emphasized praying to know if it's
true. She accepted a commitment to pray about the Book of Mormon
which is more than she would do before. I have a strange connection
with her. Her friend M got basically eaten by a couple dogs so
she's out for a few weeks. We had a lesson with J's neighbor and he
came. She is a great lady. She isn't super religious so we taught her
the Restoration and the Book of Mormon especially. She understood
everything and that it would make sense for there to be a prophet on
the earth today. She liked the part from 2 Ne 29:7-9 (I think) that
talks about there being more nation than one and that God loves ALL
people. She accepted invitations to read and pray and come to church,
but she got sick Saturday night. J was great too.
Friday we
had a lesson with this sweet dude named R. He did most of the
talking, but he was asking for advice, so we just taught him
principles here and there. We invited him to church and he really
wants to try it and he wants his whole family to also. We later found
out that he knows R and A who are members that live close to him and
they are a cool family, so we told the Gs to work with them. He wants
to meet every week.
Saturday we
realized we were almost out of miles, and even though in the past we
just went over, we decided it was more obedient to not, so we brought
our bikes and then drove to the middle and biked around and then
drove home when we were done. We had a lot of things fall through but
we had an amazing lesson with R, one of the best experiences of my
life. We talked about being consistent and staying firm in the faith.
He said he has finally made a change of heart and no longer wants to
sin (Mosiah 5:2). He said our dedication and not giving up on him has
helped him more than anything else. He told us he was about to give
up and take a bus as far as he could and start over, but it was us
that made him come back. He got very emotional and said that if her
were the only person we were to convert on his mission it would be
worth it to us. He cried and said that when he finally makes it to
the Celestial Kingdom he will be so proud to see us and that we will
deserve so much for all that we have done. It was an absolutely
beautiful thought and the Spirit was SOOOO strong. I was crying it
was very powerful. I'm really going to miss him. It was a very tender
moment and made me realize why I do what I do, to help people,
motivated by love, come to Christ so that they can have eternal
happiness in the Celestial Kingdom. I don't think it was moved by the
Spirit, but he keeps getting discouraged so I told him that by the
time I come back to visit he will be married to "his mormon
girl" like he always talks about if he stays strong and is
patient. Such a great guy. We had dinner with the B family which is
the couple that speak different languages. Bro B is an inactive
member who speaks only English, and Sis B is not a member and only
speaks Spanish. It was the BEST dinner ever! We had chips and dip,
then tostadas, then corn on the cob, then steak and potatoes, then
smoked salmon, and finally...crab! We were in heaven and they are
awesome. We shared an Easter thought and Elder W bore his testimony
in English about the Atonement and how we can be cleansed from sin
(for Bro B) and then I bore my testimony in Spanish as best I could
about Christ and invited M to church at the Spanish Branch and to
their baptism that was the next day for Sister S and A's dad. My
Spanish wasn't too bad, but she just didn't see the point in going to
a baptism. Bummer. We had a lesson with E and E was really sad about
me leaving, but it was fun to see him again.
Sunday was
the day of days. At church both me and Elder W bore our testimonies
and it was a good experience. I got a little choked up and it was
cool to look around and literally know every single family. Elder W
did a good job too. Of course everyone could guess that transfers
must be rolling around and we had a TON of people come up and thank
us and wish me well even though I never said I was leaving. In PEC
Bishop thanked me again and everyone was asking about me leaving, but
we just said likely, but won't know until tonight. I was very pleased
that they asked what they needed to do to help some of these people
we are working with. This meeting
was great and they really want to help the F and S. It was sweet.
They expressed the need to help the Fs since we wouldn't always be
there. Bro A said, "yeah it will be tough now that the icon is
leaving." It was a little uncomfortable but I'm glad I could
have made an impact here. We had a lesson with the S family again. It
went super well and they read the Intro to the Book of Mormon. We
taught the Restoration and they understood it really well. They were
excited to read from it and were open to watching conference and
going to church. I felt really clear-minded with them and we
explained things really well and the Spirit was strong. They are a
great family! Bro J picked us up from there for an early dinner which
was kinda awkward since it was fast Sunday. We had a good dinner and
then for the spiritual thought, Bro J asked if I could bear my
testimony and if Elder W could share some things he has learned from
me. I bore my testimony and I was a little choked up
thinking of all that I've learned since I've been here. It was a
tender moment and the Js were crying, thanking us for the work we do.
I got waaaay more attention than I wanted this week. We ended up
getting back to the apartment really late from our lesson, dinner,
and other visits, so we just decided to head back out instead of
studying. We got our transfer call at 8:30from President
S. He said that I was leaving, unsurprising, and that Elder W
was staying and getting a new senior companion, also unsurprising.
Then he said that I would also be a district leader in my new area.
That was a little surprising. Of course I accepted, but it was
strange to think about and I did feel like I was being prepared for
something a few weeks ago. I am both excited and nervous to go to a
new area and to be a district leader. I have a lot of thoughts and
yet I'm not sure what I think. We had a TON of members that wanted to
know what was happening, so we texted them all. I am so thankful for the
many things that I've learned here in B. I'm grateful for the amazing
relationships I have developed for so many people. I have seen the power of
Charity, the pure and perfect love of Christ. I know that when that
is our motivation, our effectiveness increases. I'm thankful for the
members in this area and all they have done for me the past 8 or 9
months. I truly love these people. "Their souls are precious,
and many of them are [my] brethren." (Alma 31:35) I will forever
think of these people and what they have done for me and the
friendships we have. I know that the gospel is true. It makes bad men
good and good men better. It truly is what will bring true, eternal,
happiness. I know that we have prophets and apostles on the earth
today and we are so blessed to hear from them this weekend. I know
that our message is true and a marvelous work and a wonder. I know
the Book of Mormon is true. I know that Christ lives and he knows
each of us individually and perfectly and he loves us. Thanks for all
the support!
Love,
Elder Pew
Love,
Elder Pew