The adventures of Elder Timo Pew, a missionary of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints in the Texas San Antonio Mission.
Monday, April 21, 2014
April 7th & 14th, 2014
April 7th, 2014
Dear family,
Wow. I didn't think things could get
much crazier, but they just did. Holy cow. Craziest week of my life.
I'll go day by day so you can catch the full effects.
Monday we had a final lesson with J and
R. Both of them were some of the best lessons I've had with them, so
it was a good way to go out.
Tuesday was crazy. Basically this whole
week we didn't eat at a normal time and didn't take more than 10
minutes to do so. Tuesday we helped Sister D for a final time with
her fence. We came back in a few hours and taught her the Word of
Wisdom with Sister S and A too. It was a really good lesson. We
committed her to live the entire Word of Wisdom (she just needed to
quit coffee and tea) and she easily accepted. She said she doesn't
even like either of them and it made sense that she would be more in
tune with the Spirit. Yes! We tried committing her to baptism, but
she wouldn't accept a date, but said when she gets there she will. We
said good-bye and she was very thankful for all we did. She told me
that I helped her understand things better than anyone has ever done
in the past. She said the Book of Mormon has been much more powerful
and meaningful since we've been teaching her. I'll send pictures of
everyone when I have my camera and a cord (long story). We had a
lesson with M as well on the Word of Wisdom. It went well too and she
asked me if she can visit in a few years once I'm settled in Utah
again. She gave me a really nice note and I think I'm one of three
people she trusts. We brought Sister W and she was sad to hear I was
leaving, but she started crying and thanked me for the things that I
had taught her. She said she was so impressed by how much I have
matured and she was thankful to know me. That was a little shocking
from her, but it was cool. We ended up taking R out to dinner one
last time which was fun. We had a lesson with S before mutual and it
was a great lesson on baptism. We have been working with his mom to
set a goal for his baptism and they should find out soon when her
work schedule gets figured out. We had a lesson with the Ss too and
it turns out that Sister S went and bought a cake that said "Elder
Pew is the best." That was too nice and I felt really bad for
Elder W. I've been getting so much attention. We had a great lesson
on Easter and Sister S asked if I could say the opening and closing
prayer and she just really loves me. We got picked up by McNeil
because Elder J drove me, and Elder S down to the trainer/district
leader meeting. That night I heard a rumor from Elder V down in San
Antonio that I was going to be the new moving Elder. I'll explain
more later.
Wednesday we drove down to San Antonio
because Elder J was training and me and Elder S were becoming
District Leaders. It also turns out that Elder I was at the District
Leader meeting so that was three of the eight were from our MTC
district. After the meeting President asked me if he could talk to me
and he confirmed the rumors that I was becoming a Moving Elder. I was
absolutely shocked! The moving Elders are usually two of the biggest,
strongest missionaries that travel the mission and pick up and
deliver furniture, pick up new cars, new missionaries, run errands
for the mission office, and do many other things. Basically we are
the assistants to the assistants and mission office. President
Slaughter told me that the moving Elders have developed a reputation
for being disobedient because they do have more freedoms because of
the assignment. We can go in sister's apartments, drive separately,
wear normal clothes, miss studies, etc. as needed. He said that they
wanted to pick someone they could trust with obedience to basically
change the reputation of the assignment. He told me that I needed to
be smart and safe and not hurt myself. It was cool too, because he
said that even though we would have less time to proselyte that the
Lord would bless us for our sacrifices and we would be able to have a
normal area. I was kinda freaking out because it also so happens that
my district will also be me, my companion, the assistants, and one
sister companionship. He also told me that my companion, Elder N
would be out longer than me but I'm still Senior Companion and
District Leader. It was a little intimidating, but I was excited to
do something new and that President Slaughter trusted me. The ride
home was fun and me and Elder S talked like the whole way. That night
we had a lesson with A and the S were sad to see me leave, and boy I
love their family. They said I'm welcome back anytime. We had a
lesson with the Ms, and then to close we had a really killer lesson
with the Fs. We talked about the characteristics of Christ's church
and actually had them build a house out of cardboard and each piece
represented something from Christ's church. They liked it and I did
start crying when I bore my testimony at the end and expressed my
love for them. They got me a pie for all the times we gave them
something and a nice letter. I also gave them a letter and we took
pictures and I told them I'd be back someday. It was sad to leave
them, but it ended on a really positive note. H was actually getting
teary-eyed when I bore my testimony too so I know that she felt the
Spirit and is really close to just giving it all a shot. I hope they
do. I told them in my letter I hope to be there when they get sealed
in the temple.
Thursday morning I had to pack
basically everything because I hadn't had a chance yet and I wasn't
able to fit hardly anything in my suitcases. I had to leave out my
blanket and my nice jacket, but I can easily get it sometime we have
to go to Round Rock. When I said a final prayer in the apartment I
was crying too as I thought over the great experiences I had in
Brushy Creek. I asked a special blessing on everyone in the area
especially those that are still investigating. I really am sooo
thankful for the experience I had and I love the people so much and
I'm filled with gratitude over all that I was able to be a part of. I
don't think I could have the area at a bigger peak and I can't
express my gratitude that I was able to make such an impact for these
"precious souls" (Alma 31:34 I think). Elder W was almost
near tears when we did our final companionship inventory which is
unheard of for him. We had a lesson with E and we basically just bore
our testimonies of the church and L was yet again considering baptism
and asked about her family though that would hate her for joining. I
told her that sometimes we have to make hard decisions but if we know
it's the right thing to do, we should do it anyways. It was a good
meeting. We went to transfer meeting and I think that EVERYONE was
surprised to see me as the new moving Elder. Everyone was really
excited for me, but it was a shocker. My companion is Elder N. He is
from Gilbert, Arizona and has been out for one transfer more than me.
He is really cool and of course really strong, although he's only a
little taller than me. We had to go straight to work once the meeting
ended and we put everyone that was going to Austin's bikes into the
trailer. Yeah, I drive a huge Chevy truck with a trailer on the back,
who would have thought? I always told myself when I came into the
mission that if there was one thing I knew I wouldn't end up doing,
it was being a moving Elder. You have to love working out, being
strong, driving trucks, and carrying things. I still chuckle about it
when I think about it. When we got back to San Antonio we had a bunch
of things we had to deliver to missionaries all over, and we had to
stop at the missions' storage units that I have to keep track of. We
didn't even have time to proselyte that evening. Our area is the S
ward, and we are in northern San Antonio, pretty close to the temple,
mission home, etc.
Friday we got up
really early and worked out pretty hard. Elder V and Sister C were
both saying that I better be 185 lbs of muscle soon. At this pace I
probably will be. I'm still sore from working out. We are in the
mission office a lot and we work with the Senior missionary over
apartments and finances. We didn't even finish companion study and we
had to head out to run errands. We didn't get back until about 5 for
dinner. We proselyted that evening and we did teach a less-active
guy. He said he was interested in coming back though. We really don't
have a ton going on here, and we really have one investigator who is
solid, but he already has a membership record but doesn't remember
being baptized at all, so that situation needs to be figured out
before we can baptize him. We have a few active non-members too, but
I have the faith that those can get worked out.
Saturday was just a Conference day
which I absolutely loved! Conference was incredible! The talks that
stuck out to me the most were of course Elder Holland's pulpit
pounding, Linda S. Reeves, Richard G. Scott, Quentin L Cook (I was
waiting for one on family history), Dallin H Oaks in Priesthood (that
was a really cool talk), M. Russell Ballard (of course), David A
Bednar, and my favorite was Elder Corbridge. That was such a good
talk. I felt the Spirit very strong with the message of the
Restoration. I can't wait to share that one with investigators. It
was also pretty cool to see Brynn! I counted four times and everyone
was asking about her, so that was fun to see! What a neat experience
to sing in Conference! We didn't really have time to proselyte
because the extra time we had we weekly planned. We watched all the
sessions except Priesthood at the Stake Center, and we went to our
building for Priesthood. I met a few people from the ward and they
were really friendly. It was strange since I met a few of them before
at the baptism me and Elder T went to, but I don't think any of them
recognized me.
Sunday was similar except we had time
to proselyte afterwards. We were able to have a lesson with this cool
less-active couple, the Ps. They seem pretty open to coming back, so
hopefully they do.
We have a lot of work to do. It's also
tough because Elder N has been here way longer (this is his 4th
transfer) and has been out longer, so he's led the way so far, and
I'm not sure how to tactfully lead more. He's determined to do better
this transfer and once I get the hang of things here I think he'll
let me lead because I have a lot of ideas on how to help the area and
he has done things differently in the past. He's a really good
missionary though and has a solid testimony of the gospel and is
really effective if he's doing the right thing and puts his mind to
it. My point is, we need some extra prayers to know how to handle the
situation and to pick things up in the area. I want this area to
still be proselyting focused despite our other duties, instead of it
taking the back seat, but it will take time to change the culture.
Anyways, thank you for all the support and I know that if we have the
faith we really can accomplish miracles. I know that we do have
living prophets and Apostles and I loved hearing their words. It's up
to us whether we will be quick to remember or forget their counsel. I
know that God knows us and watches over us. Despite the crazy changes
and heavy load ahead (pun intended) I know that In the Strength of
the Lord I can do what is required of me like Elder Bednar said. Have
a great week!
Love,
Elder Pew
April 14th, 2014
Dear family,
This was another crazy, crazy week, but
that is the life of a Moving Elder. It has been pretty tough for me
to not proselyte very much, especially since there is not much going
on in the area and we don't have a ton of time to get things going,
but it's been a fun new adventure. Basically every morning is the
same. We get up at 5:50 and work out. Hard. I've put on a bit of
muscle weight and I've already gotten stronger. Elder N calls it the
Swol Factory and I am definitely swollen, but it does feel good to
work out hard. My body feels great and awake. I bet none of you
expected me to come home super in-shape and ripped, but that might be
what happens. I know I wasn't expecting it. We study at 8 and then
have to leave at 9 to go to the mission office. We talk to Elder W
about things missionaries have called him about, upcoming moves, etc.
and then we head out to do our deliveries. We usually aim to be back
by 5 for dinner and then proselyte the rest of the evening. The hard
thing is that there is no "set" rules or agendas for us. We
have a lot of liberty and a lot of people who want things. One of my
possible suggestions has been to go to each zone just once a month on
a date they know and they can just request the things they need and
we bring it out in one big load, that way we don't have to drive all
the way to R just to deliver a shower curtain or something. My other
idea has been to do a bit of companion study in the car and to call
people in the area book, investigators, or less-active members while
we are driving around to be more efficient. I want the area to be
more focused on proselyting than Moving Elder stuff, and do that when
needed. It will be a slow process, but I think it will work.
Monday night we stopped by a lot of
people and ended up having a lesson with this less-active guy named
B. He's like 64 but really energetic and funny. He has been coming to
church off and on the past few months and his wife isn't a member. He
said he's working on her, so that would be cool to teach her.
Tuesday we had to run a bunch of
errands. We organize everyone's orders and mail for each zone to pick
up after MLC (Missionary Leadership Conference) and then we ran
around picking up a bunch of things and buying supplies at Wal-Mart,
Home Depot, and Office Depot. It's pretty strange going to stores
like everyday. We had a lesson with our only kinda investigator
Brother H. He is the one who we have records for him but he promises
that he's never been baptized. He started trying out our church a few
weeks ago and has progressed pretty well, but we need to have our
bishop interview him and find out if he really remembers or not. If
not, President Slaughter has said to treat him like an investigator.
We watched a CES Devotional that I saw a few weeks ago on P-Day
called "the Blueprints to Christ's True Church" by Tad R.
Callister in January of this year. It is an amazing talk. Super
powerful, I highly recommend it. Anyways, he really loved the talk
and the only things holding him back is he is in leadership in his
other church that's falling apart, his wife isn't interested, and he
needs to know more doctrine. I asked him though at the end if he
believed that our church is Christ's true church and he said yes. The
more I've thought about the situation the more I've thought that he
doesn't have a very strong testimony, but he loves missionaries and
the way the church is run, so he's got a good start. We just need to
help him understand our purpose, help his wife, and teach him
doctrine. He's a good guy. Also a free-mason.
Wednesday we had to deliver some things
to East Zone and take some bikes different places. We were able to
finish by dinner. We had dinner with the Ms, a super nice older
couple from South Africa. They are really cool. They said they knew
several Louws, but they didn't know for sure. They are really
awesome. We had a lesson with a recent-convert J and he is a solid 20
year-old with a member wife and two kids. They are going through some
rough financial situations but they are holding on to the gospel
which is great. We had a good lesson and then we had a lesson set
with a lady whose husband doesn't live with her and isn't a member
but comes to church every week, so we were going to talk to her, and
we asked J if he could come so we could go inside and he came. It was
sweet and he bore some solid testimony. Sister G is really nice and
has recently become much more active. She made a deal with her
husband that they would go to church every week. He doesn't live with
them because of conflict with the daughters. She is trying to figure
the situation out and she said he's been taught before, but we asked
if she would invite him to be taught again. She agreed and thought he
would be willing, but I guess he doesn't like being pushed. We'll see
how that one ends up.
Thursday we were really busy. We had to
go to Lockhart and Bastrop, which is like an hour or more away. It
was cool to drive and the cities are SO cool! They are really old and
there are like these manor looking houses. I loved it a lot. We went
to a super good BBQ place called Blacks. They have delicious brisket
(?) that just melts in your mouth. Gotta love Texas. We also had to
go to pick up all the furniture and supplies for the senior couple
that moved into Eagle Pass on the Border because they needed to move
in on Friday. We had a ton of stuff to do and then we had to go to
East San Antonio again to pick up some more stuff and we didn't get
home unitl after nine. It was a crazy day. We just have to eat
whenever we have a second.
Friday we had zone meeting. Our zone is
much bigger and it's really impressive. The Spirit was strong the
entire time. As usual it was a bunch of things that I need help with.
After the meeting we actually had a Zone Council with the leaders in
the zone. There are a lot. There are the zone leaders, three district
leaders, two sister training leaders, the Assistants, and the Sister
Assistants. It was an intense meeting and they have a really high
vision of what they want to accomplish. We were talking way above
where I'm even at, so I came out of there feeling pretty insufficient
and a lot of things to work on. Sometimes I do get discouraged
hearing where the leaders of the mission want us and where we are. I
know I'm not the only one who is far below the bar. President
Slaughter has been talking a lot about "breaking the ceiling"
which I basically explain as having the faith to work and witness
miracles. I am curious to go on exchanges with the zone leaders and
Assistants to see what they are like and if we are all just talking
about a level that none of us are really at or close to, or what. I
know that's bad to compare but I just know that the level here (at
least talked about) is waaaay higher than the zone I came from,
whether that's just a hope and vision, or a reality, I'm not sure.
Anyways, we had to hurry out of there to make it to the Border at
Eagle Pass. It was pretty exciting to get to go. You take the 35
south which is pretty well populated until you move out of San
Antonio, then it's more country. Then you get off and take a little
country highway the next 99 miles to Eagle Pass. There is absolutely
nothing. There is lots of trees and shrubs and things, but no people.
There is like 1.5 towns in between. Our car got caked with bugs. It
was much different than I expected. Eagle Pass is a pretty nice
place. It looked like any other city, unlike the shack, dirt road
streets I was expecting. The zone leaders there did say it is much
more ghetto once you leave the main city, but it was cool. You could
see a huge Mexican flag waiving just across the border and we were
about a mile away from it. The apartment was pretty nice and we got
everything in and assembled by about 8. They got us Super Tacos which
is a famous place down there and it was really good. Steak and
chicken tacos. Also my pants ripped at the crotch while we were
working which was pretty funny. It was super noticeable. We had to
make the long 2.5 hour drive home afterwards. It was a little freaky
flying down the one-lane road with no street lights at like 80 mph.
We were about halfway back the 99 mile stretch and I got pulled over.
The officer said I was going 84 on a 75 mph road which wasn't true
since I had the cruise control set at like 78, but we were just
really polite and he asked what we were doing and we just told him
that we help other missionaries move their furniture and things and
that usually we are suppose to be home by 10:30 but because we have a
special assignment we have some leverage but that might be why we
were in a hurry. He was a nice cop so I think he realized it would be
ridiculous for giving someone a ticket for only going 9 over on a
completely empty road and just gave me a warning, so that's three
times getting pulled over with 0 tickets. Yes. We got back around
10:45 which just feels super weird.
Saturday we had to go up to Austin to
deliver a book-shelf, filters, chairs, etc. to some missionaries up
there. It was weird because we drove on the 45 which goes through
Brushy Creek a bit and goes right next to the apartment. That was
kinda freaky. We got back around dinner and headed out to proselyte
for the first time in a few days. We weren't able to teach any
lessons, but we made a lot of visits. There are a ton of less-active
and part-member families that we don't know so we are hoping to find
new people to teach through those, but no success yet.
Sunday I had my first time at church
which feels weird since it feels like I've been here for awhile now.
It is a really cool ward and the bishop's funny and a great guy.
It's a great ward and I'm excited to be here. We stopped by a bunch
of people again to no avail. It's has been a little difficult because
Elder N hates anything but stopping by those people and won't street
contact or knock, so have spent a lot of time in the car driving to
the next house. The few people I have been able to contact have been
really nice and we taught one guy a bit about prophets, but he wasn't
super interested and we left a pamphlet with him. I understand the
effectiveness of member work over street contacting, but since we
have so little time, we need to talk to as many people as we can.
It's been difficult but I am confident that the Lord will bless us
for the efforts we are making and things will pick up in this area.
I know that this church is true and
that this gospel brings us true happiness now, and in the eternities.
I know that Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ live and love us and
that everything they do is for our benefit. I know that trials are
given to us to help us grow and develop into who we need to become.
I know that the Book of Mormon is true and is the word of God.
I love the gospel and everything it teaches and I know it will help
us through the whirlwinds of life. Thank you for being such a great
support!
Love,
Elder Pew
p.s. I should be able to send pictures
next week hopefully
Friday, April 4, 2014
March 24th & 31st, 2014
March 24th, 2014
Dear
family,
Alright
the subject line (running over Elder W) is brought to you by probably
the funniest moment so far of my mission. We were backing out of an
apartment complex last night and Elder W stands right behind the car
until there aren't any cars and then he backs up and I follow him.
Well he started to back up so I put the car in reverse and started
backing, but then I heard a smack on the car so I looked back and
Elder W had ran up to the car and smacked it because there was car
coming, but they saw that I was starting to back, so they were
stopped, but I didn't see Elder W at first so I accidentally bumped
him with the car and he had a water bottle in his hand and it made
him spill it all over the car and a little on himself. I looked back
to see the thumping noise right as I saw that I had bumped Elder W
and watched him spill the water everywhere. The person in the other
car was probably really weirded out and I was laughing hysterically.
Of course he wasn't hurt at all but it was really funny to watch from
my view in the driver's seat. We had a pretty good week. We found
some new investigators, but struggled to have many lessons with our
other ones, but had lots of RCLAs, but didn't get people to church,
but half the F family came. I really hope I can stay here a few
months longer.
Monday
was pretty sweet. We dropped by the Ks to see how they were doing,
and Brother K came out and we talked about his family history quest.
He and his wife had caught fire in family history and his wife was
able to trace her line back to work that had already been done that
went all the way back to like 200 AD. Instead of just saying they
were busy, he came out and asked us a ton of questions about the
church, mostly about the temple. We explained eternal families, but
he had some tough questions about people who are divorced, what
happens to the righteous spouse in heaven if the other spouse is
disobedient, etc. It was awesome for him to be open and immediately I
knew it was going to end well with his daughter. Sure enough, his
final question was, "My daughter is nine and she wants to get
baptized, where should we go from here?" He said that he already
asked her if she wanted us to come over, but she is really shy so
they said she won't do it until she feels comfortable. He told us he
was planning to come to church last week but he got confused about
which ward to go to, but that they were going to come this week.
Unfortunately he had a job interview so they didn't come, but
hopefully we start teaching their daughter this week. That was such a
cool experience! It went exactly how we had hoped! We were super
grateful for that.
Tuesday
we had zone conference and interviews with President S. He
gave a really good training on the Restoration and explained the
little-known four accounts of the first vision so that we would be
armed with the facts. He has an amazing understanding and testimony
of the Restoration. My interview went well and it was pretty short.
We have continued to receive more referrals lately but I'll explain a
few of them later.
Wednesday was a good day. We had a lesson with M and we invited her to bring her friend M. M is a retired Methodist minister. We were planning to teach the Restoration, but M and M and such big talkers that we didn't get to Joseph Smith or the Book of Mormon so we are meeting this week. I don't think M is really interested, but we'll see what happens this week. We had a pretty slow day until just before dinner we contacted the referral that we got from a lady in W and this time the lady J was in better health so S (her brother) let us in. We sat down and we invited S and some other dude who was there to join us, but only S and J came. J is really sick, but she never said what it was. They are really nice people and we taught them about the Atonement from the Book of Mormon since that seemed like something that could help them in their state as well as show them the power of the Book of Mormon. They liked what we had to say and were grateful we had stopped by. We can't really set things up with them since J's health is pretty hit-and-miss. We stopped by Saturday with copies of the Book of Mormon and J didn't have the health to meet but S was pretty excited to get a copy of the Book of Mormon. They are great people. We had a lesson with the Ms and Bro R came since he is their home teacher. It went better than most weeks and Bro M actually warmed up to Bro R pretty well. We had a lesson with R and he was really grateful we didn't give up on him since he ran off to San Antonio again but we told him it's never too late. I gave him a bunch of those papers that mom gave me and he loved them, especially the picture of Christ. He's going to be alright.
Wednesday was a good day. We had a lesson with M and we invited her to bring her friend M. M is a retired Methodist minister. We were planning to teach the Restoration, but M and M and such big talkers that we didn't get to Joseph Smith or the Book of Mormon so we are meeting this week. I don't think M is really interested, but we'll see what happens this week. We had a pretty slow day until just before dinner we contacted the referral that we got from a lady in W and this time the lady J was in better health so S (her brother) let us in. We sat down and we invited S and some other dude who was there to join us, but only S and J came. J is really sick, but she never said what it was. They are really nice people and we taught them about the Atonement from the Book of Mormon since that seemed like something that could help them in their state as well as show them the power of the Book of Mormon. They liked what we had to say and were grateful we had stopped by. We can't really set things up with them since J's health is pretty hit-and-miss. We stopped by Saturday with copies of the Book of Mormon and J didn't have the health to meet but S was pretty excited to get a copy of the Book of Mormon. They are great people. We had a lesson with the Ms and Bro R came since he is their home teacher. It went better than most weeks and Bro M actually warmed up to Bro R pretty well. We had a lesson with R and he was really grateful we didn't give up on him since he ran off to San Antonio again but we told him it's never too late. I gave him a bunch of those papers that mom gave me and he loved them, especially the picture of Christ. He's going to be alright.
Thursday
we had a lesson with J ith Bro C who has a TON of evidence of the
Book of Mormon from South America. It was really really cool.
Basically he was a retired CIA agent who stumbled on a book in a
library in Peru that was written by a conquistador who wrote the
stories of the natives. He recorded legends of four brothers who
fought because the youngest brother could shoot his bow the highest,
a white God who came to them after there was no sun for three days,
and a few other Book of Mormon stories. He was shocked and decided to
search out other books like the one he had found. He has collected
more than 70 rare copies from these Spanish conquistadors and priests
that wrote the legends and stories of the Native Americans and found
so many Book of Mormon stories. I don't have time to tell all the
evidence but he knew stuff about Hagoth the ship builder from the end
of Alma, the Jaredite people, evidence of Jared from Genesis 10, what
the Curelom and Cummoms are, etc. It was fascinating. He goes to
conferences all the time with his research and has a book called
Voices From the Dust about it all too. J really liked it and he had
watched the Restoration DVD. I think he really wants to know this
stuff, he just has a hard time and can be stubborn at times. Him and
D (his wife) took us out to Denny's and they were hilarious. I love
those two. We had dinner with the Ss and G remains nice and
supportive but not interested. Oh well.
Saturday
we were going to bring R to some lessons with us but he bailed on
us. We taught S and Sis D. Our lesson with Sis D was interesting. She
asked if we believed on Mormons were going to heaven. I told her the
explanation wasn't that simple, so I explained priesthood authority
and how everyone will have a chance and that just because someone
isn't going to be condemned if they never had the chance and that it
was authority, not Mormonism that mattered. She didn't really like
that a whole lot and she seemed to think that was what I personally
believed but she was happy that I believed it but she doesn't think
it's true for everyone. We listened to Come, Join with Us, and she
really liked that so that was good. She had to leave out of town so
she didn't come to church.
Sunday
was eventful and pretty solid. Church was great even though only E,
T, C, and Bro F came to church. We offered to make them breakfast
again but they said it's too hectic in the mornings for them. They
told us that Bro F was taking some of the little ones. It was good to
see them in church and we heard from the Primary President that they
seemed to enjoy it. Our meetings went pretty well and we were able to
make some plans for the week. We had a lesson with B and he's doing
alright despite the fact that he's missed church the past three weeks
due to work. He is really trying to figure things out and he's at a
huge crossroad in his life. He wants to find a real career and find a
wife and be able to focus more on spiritual things like he wants. We
talked about Prophets and Apostles and how he can receive answers to
prayers at General Conference (by the way I am SUPER excited for
Conference) if he goes in with faith and a desire to know what he
needs to do. We also had a quick lesson with the Ls and they wanted
us over for dinner today, so we accepted and then we realized we
should try and get an investigator to come, so we invited S and his
family and his mom accepted, so we are having dinner and a lesson
with the Ls and the Ks tonight. Sweet! We contacted two pretty solid
referrals and one was from J and it's his neighbor. She's a really
nice older lady and she got choked up and was happy to see that there
were still nice people who cared in the world. I testified that the
things that we teach will help her through all of her trials and we
set up a time to come by this week with J. It was really sweet to be
an answer to someone's prayers. Oh we also had a cool experience
where we were in a complex and I felt like we should talk to this
lady that was pretty far away in her car, so we walked by but she
didn't get out, but I felt like we should try again, so we looped
back around and this time she came out and walked right up to us and
asked who we were and we told her and she said she was from Utah and
her sister is a member. She said she took it as a sign, but we
weren't sure if she meant a sign to learn more, or a sign that she
needs to move back to Utah, but she was really glad she saw us and we
gave her our number so she can call when she wants to learn more. I
hope she does call, she seemed really awesome.
I
know that this is the true church of Jesus Christ and that true
happiness does come through living the gospel. I know that we are
blessed when we are obedient and work hard. I know that with faith we
can accomplish anything according to the Lord's will. I know that the
Book of Mormon is the word of God and is the evidence of the
marvelous message we have that God still speaks to us today. Thanks
for all the support!
Love,
Elder Pew
Love,
Elder Pew
March 31st, 2014
Dear
family,
Well
this time we can pretty well know what happened, so I'm just going to
get straight to it. This was my last full week in B. It was a good
one. I'll just get right into the good stuff.
Monday
night we set up that sweet lesson with the Ks and Ls, but when we
went with the Ls to pick the Ks up, S wasn't there. It turns out he
had baseball and they didn't know it. That was sad especially because
that made it disobedient to have a dinner without a non-member there,
but the L family sacrificed a lot to work everything out so we went
with it and it was good to be able to teach Sister K and her
daughter. The L family is awesome!
Tuesday
we had a lesson with Sister D and Sister S and it went really well. I
really wanted to commit her to a baptismal date, but Sister D and S
ended up side-tracking our conversation at the end so the Spirit
wasn't really there. We did a lot of biking the rest of that day, but
we were able to meet with the Fs briefly. We went over and Sis F, H,
and A were gone, but they got back when we were talking with Bro F
and E, and they had us come in even though they were busy. They sat
us down and made us eat some of the Indian food they had just gotten
and we talked. They are just the best family ever (The Indian food
was good by the way). Like I said, they were busy but we asked if we
could share a quick thought with them, so we talked about the
Atonement. We also set up a final lesson before the transfer. That is
going to be an intense lesson.
Wednesday
we had district meeting and we didn't have any lessons. So we did a
lot of biking and not much teaching, but that's okay.
Thursday
we weekly planned which was strange to plan and finally know that I
wasn't going to be there for all of the week. We had a lesson with M
and we pounded the importance of the Book of Mormon. She is
progressing ever slowly. We really emphasized praying to know if it's
true. She accepted a commitment to pray about the Book of Mormon
which is more than she would do before. I have a strange connection
with her. Her friend M got basically eaten by a couple dogs so
she's out for a few weeks. We had a lesson with J's neighbor and he
came. She is a great lady. She isn't super religious so we taught her
the Restoration and the Book of Mormon especially. She understood
everything and that it would make sense for there to be a prophet on
the earth today. She liked the part from 2 Ne 29:7-9 (I think) that
talks about there being more nation than one and that God loves ALL
people. She accepted invitations to read and pray and come to church,
but she got sick Saturday night. J was great too.
Friday we
had a lesson with this sweet dude named R. He did most of the
talking, but he was asking for advice, so we just taught him
principles here and there. We invited him to church and he really
wants to try it and he wants his whole family to also. We later found
out that he knows R and A who are members that live close to him and
they are a cool family, so we told the Gs to work with them. He wants
to meet every week.
Saturday we
realized we were almost out of miles, and even though in the past we
just went over, we decided it was more obedient to not, so we brought
our bikes and then drove to the middle and biked around and then
drove home when we were done. We had a lot of things fall through but
we had an amazing lesson with R, one of the best experiences of my
life. We talked about being consistent and staying firm in the faith.
He said he has finally made a change of heart and no longer wants to
sin (Mosiah 5:2). He said our dedication and not giving up on him has
helped him more than anything else. He told us he was about to give
up and take a bus as far as he could and start over, but it was us
that made him come back. He got very emotional and said that if her
were the only person we were to convert on his mission it would be
worth it to us. He cried and said that when he finally makes it to
the Celestial Kingdom he will be so proud to see us and that we will
deserve so much for all that we have done. It was an absolutely
beautiful thought and the Spirit was SOOOO strong. I was crying it
was very powerful. I'm really going to miss him. It was a very tender
moment and made me realize why I do what I do, to help people,
motivated by love, come to Christ so that they can have eternal
happiness in the Celestial Kingdom. I don't think it was moved by the
Spirit, but he keeps getting discouraged so I told him that by the
time I come back to visit he will be married to "his mormon
girl" like he always talks about if he stays strong and is
patient. Such a great guy. We had dinner with the B family which is
the couple that speak different languages. Bro B is an inactive
member who speaks only English, and Sis B is not a member and only
speaks Spanish. It was the BEST dinner ever! We had chips and dip,
then tostadas, then corn on the cob, then steak and potatoes, then
smoked salmon, and finally...crab! We were in heaven and they are
awesome. We shared an Easter thought and Elder W bore his testimony
in English about the Atonement and how we can be cleansed from sin
(for Bro B) and then I bore my testimony in Spanish as best I could
about Christ and invited M to church at the Spanish Branch and to
their baptism that was the next day for Sister S and A's dad. My
Spanish wasn't too bad, but she just didn't see the point in going to
a baptism. Bummer. We had a lesson with E and E was really sad about
me leaving, but it was fun to see him again.
Sunday was
the day of days. At church both me and Elder W bore our testimonies
and it was a good experience. I got a little choked up and it was
cool to look around and literally know every single family. Elder W
did a good job too. Of course everyone could guess that transfers
must be rolling around and we had a TON of people come up and thank
us and wish me well even though I never said I was leaving. In PEC
Bishop thanked me again and everyone was asking about me leaving, but
we just said likely, but won't know until tonight. I was very pleased
that they asked what they needed to do to help some of these people
we are working with. This meeting
was great and they really want to help the F and S. It was sweet.
They expressed the need to help the Fs since we wouldn't always be
there. Bro A said, "yeah it will be tough now that the icon is
leaving." It was a little uncomfortable but I'm glad I could
have made an impact here. We had a lesson with the S family again. It
went super well and they read the Intro to the Book of Mormon. We
taught the Restoration and they understood it really well. They were
excited to read from it and were open to watching conference and
going to church. I felt really clear-minded with them and we
explained things really well and the Spirit was strong. They are a
great family! Bro J picked us up from there for an early dinner which
was kinda awkward since it was fast Sunday. We had a good dinner and
then for the spiritual thought, Bro J asked if I could bear my
testimony and if Elder W could share some things he has learned from
me. I bore my testimony and I was a little choked up
thinking of all that I've learned since I've been here. It was a
tender moment and the Js were crying, thanking us for the work we do.
I got waaaay more attention than I wanted this week. We ended up
getting back to the apartment really late from our lesson, dinner,
and other visits, so we just decided to head back out instead of
studying. We got our transfer call at 8:30from President
S. He said that I was leaving, unsurprising, and that Elder W
was staying and getting a new senior companion, also unsurprising.
Then he said that I would also be a district leader in my new area.
That was a little surprising. Of course I accepted, but it was
strange to think about and I did feel like I was being prepared for
something a few weeks ago. I am both excited and nervous to go to a
new area and to be a district leader. I have a lot of thoughts and
yet I'm not sure what I think. We had a TON of members that wanted to
know what was happening, so we texted them all. I am so thankful for the
many things that I've learned here in B. I'm grateful for the amazing
relationships I have developed for so many people. I have seen the power of
Charity, the pure and perfect love of Christ. I know that when that
is our motivation, our effectiveness increases. I'm thankful for the
members in this area and all they have done for me the past 8 or 9
months. I truly love these people. "Their souls are precious,
and many of them are [my] brethren." (Alma 31:35) I will forever
think of these people and what they have done for me and the
friendships we have. I know that the gospel is true. It makes bad men
good and good men better. It truly is what will bring true, eternal,
happiness. I know that we have prophets and apostles on the earth
today and we are so blessed to hear from them this weekend. I know
that our message is true and a marvelous work and a wonder. I know
the Book of Mormon is true. I know that Christ lives and he knows
each of us individually and perfectly and he loves us. Thanks for all
the support!
Love,
Elder Pew
Love,
Elder Pew
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